Need advice from nondrinkers, our society rooted in alcohol?

I do a lot of the same things you do, but I just order a sodas when I go out because drinking makes me sleepy lol. I don't see why you can't continue enjoying your favorite places, but opt for the non-alcoholic choices. (it's cheaper too). You can kind of sort through the establishments you think you HAVE to buy drinks from...they can't force you go buy drinks!